I acknowledged my sin to you, and I did not cover my iniquity; I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the Lord,” and you forgave the iniquity of my sin. (Psalm 32:5 ESV)
Jesus would probably not be considered gentle by “gentle” “Christian” mothers when he spoke to the Pharisees and said something like this to them, “Woe to scribes and Pharisees, Hypocrites! Blind guides.” They probably also wouldn’t consider it gentle to say, “For they preach, but do not practice...For you shut the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. For you neither enter yourselves nor allow those who would enter to go in. For you…make a single proselyte, and when he becomes a proselyte, you make him twice as much a child of hell as yourselves…You blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and the plate, that the outside also may be clean…So you also outwardly appear righteous to others, but within you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness.” (Matthew 23:1-36)
Why do I say they wouldn’t consider Jesus gentle? Many GCMers avoid talk of sin for the most part. They don’t seem to think they or their kids are sinners. They might say they are sinners so they can say they have grace, but they never admit any of the sins they actually commit are sins. It is so much easier to call sins by a psychology term so they can keep doing what they are doing. So they will probably think I am harsh and be mad at me for what I am about to say to them. My purpose though is actually to call them to repentance so they may walk in a manner worthy of God (2 Cor 7:8-11, 1 Thess 2:12).
SIN! Woe to you GCMers, you hypocrites, you blind guides, you who preach but do not practice. You make others twice as much a child of hell as you yourselves are. You profess to know God but your actions deny Him. Mourn and weep over your drunkenness, your fornication, your adultery, your lies, your idolatry, your hatred, your arrogance and pride. Repent! “Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 ESV).” “Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him (1 John 3:15).” Those who practice these things will be thrown into the lake that burns with fire and sulfur (Revelation 21:8).
STOP! Stop playing the blame game. Adam and Eve tried it, didn’t work. Your sins are not the result of your (ex) husband or your parents. “But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire (James 1:14).” Admit your sins to God and stop trying to deny them. Do you really think God is going to accept those excuses on the day of judgment? The guilt you feel is the result of the sin you continue to commit against a Holy God who humbled Himself by becoming obedient to death, even death on a cross! (Phil 2:8)
FREEDOM! True freedom does not come from body piercings, tattoos, drinking, workbooks, or sexual immorality. You work hard for your freedom, but you are a slave to your sin. Freedom, true freedom, only comes through Christ (John 8:31-38). The Son sets you free!
FORGIVENESS! How good of God to forgive us when we acknowledge our sins to Him. He could hold our sins against us, but if we humble ourselves before Him, He gives us grace. If we do not humble ourselves, keep on sinning deliberately, and not confess our iniquities, He will oppose us. It is a dreadful and fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God. (James 4:1-10, Hebrews 10:26-31) Repent while it is still today! The precious promise of God is that He will remember your sins and lawless deeds no more. Today is the day of salvation through Christ Jesus our Lord as 2 Cor 6:2 says, “Behold, now is the favorable time; behold, now is the day of salvation.”
Create in Me a Clean Heart, O God
To the choirmaster. A Psalm of David, when Nathan the prophet went to him, after he had gone in to Bathsheba.
Have mercy on me, O God,
according to your steadfast love;
according to your abundant mercy
blot out my transgressions.
Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity,
and cleanse me from my sin!
For I know my transgressions,
and my sin is ever before me.
Against you, you only, have I sinned
and done what is evil in your sight,
so that you may be justified in your words
and blameless in your judgment.
Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity,
and in sin did my mother conceive me.
Behold, you delight in truth in the inward being,
and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart.
Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean;
wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.
Let me hear joy and gladness;
let the bones that you have broken rejoice.
Hide your face from my sins,
and blot out all my iniquities.
(Psalm 51:1-9 ESV)